Thursday, December 10, 2009

Tips on How to pick up girls

Most guys who stress over how to pick up girls spend more time second guessing themselves than simply going out there and trying it out. Look, man. You won't improve your game
much and it might take you years before you learn how to pick up girls if you just sit in front of your PC dreaming of the time you want to spend with beautiful women.

First of all, stop making excuses such as being too preoccupied with work matters, or being too tired after work to socialize, but all these things mean little if you're driven to improve your
social life. I'll spell it out for you. Any guy can go from being an average nine to five guy to being the chick magnet that women anywhere would die to date.

Your first lesson is learning how to prepare for a night out...

Two Prep Work Methods of Expert Seducers

1. Unwind After Work

If you feel like a mindless robot after work, you might not yet be in the mood to hook up with chicks. What you can do is to jumpstart your mood by relaxing for a while. Getting hyped up too much is doing it wrong. Your mind has to adjust to the different level of stimuli that you get from socializing. Watch comedy or read a poetry book; basically anything that will help you
forget about work will do. If you're still thinking of work, you'll be a bore in conversation.

2. Socialize

Here's a secret: not every guy who can start conversations with women are salesmen who do this stuff all day. They just make it a point to talk to everyone they meet, even if it's just about something mundane like the weather. So now you know, you just have to relax and stay cool when you're transitioning from work to play. Say hi or hello whenever you can. Smile at your female office worker and ask her how her day is going. Get those conversation juices flowing! Once you get used to relaxing and staying social during the day the way you pick up girls in clubs will improve.

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